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		<title>By: Report This!: JoeWessels.Net &#187; CityBeat column: Still don&#8217;t get it</title>
		<link>http://joewessels.net/2007/10/06/another-washington-park-do-gooder-story/#comment-34905</link>
		<dc:creator>Report This!: JoeWessels.Net &#187; CityBeat column: Still don&#8217;t get it</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 11:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] bless them. Really. They mean well, but after this blog post and my first column in CityBeat, I still believe we are not seeing eye-to-eye on the cause and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Dyah</title>
		<link>http://joewessels.net/2007/10/06/another-washington-park-do-gooder-story/#comment-20739</link>
		<dc:creator>Dyah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2007 02:46:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joe, that's all just me. I sometimes hang out at the Outlet at City Gospel Mission, at the basement, on Saturdays, with my friends where I got all those stories. I also go to the suburban church called the Vineyard. I just want everyone knows that we don't claim ourselves to be "do gooders" cause all we try to do is to love people, as Jesus would. We have our short comings, of course cause all of us are sinners and no one is perfect. That's why I think it is important to listen to concerns like yours.

I was reading all the comments here...it's so good to know and it really is a good discussion. 

Looking forward to the next post.

Dyah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, that&#8217;s all just me. I sometimes hang out at the Outlet at City Gospel Mission, at the basement, on Saturdays, with my friends where I got all those stories. I also go to the suburban church called the Vineyard. I just want everyone knows that we don&#8217;t claim ourselves to be &#8220;do gooders&#8221; cause all we try to do is to love people, as Jesus would. We have our short comings, of course cause all of us are sinners and no one is perfect. That&#8217;s why I think it is important to listen to concerns like yours.</p>
<p>I was reading all the comments here&#8230;it&#8217;s so good to know and it really is a good discussion. </p>
<p>Looking forward to the next post.</p>
<p>Dyah</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Wessels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Wessels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 22:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dyah, I'm a little confused by the comment post. Is that middle part you or a pastor writing?

I did hear back from a Vineyard pastor and plan to post his response, but I was waiting to hear more. I've actually heard from more than just a Vineyard pastor, but other pastors, residents and business owners in Over-the-Rhine... Another post is in the works.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dyah, I&#8217;m a little confused by the comment post. Is that middle part you or a pastor writing?</p>
<p>I did hear back from a Vineyard pastor and plan to post his response, but I was waiting to hear more. I&#8217;ve actually heard from more than just a Vineyard pastor, but other pastors, residents and business owners in Over-the-Rhine&#8230; Another post is in the works.</p>
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		<title>By: Dyah</title>
		<link>http://joewessels.net/2007/10/06/another-washington-park-do-gooder-story/#comment-20709</link>
		<dc:creator>Dyah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 16:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joe,
I've talked to the Vineyard Pastor about it and he said you've already connected with one of the pastors. 

For the readers' information:
- The Vineyard WILL develop a "Healing Center" next to their church, that will address all kinds of "Needs" to expand their current ministry (MercyWorks) that  help people not only with food, job coaching, etc, but also counseling. 
- I've heard some opinions about serving food at Washington Park, but here's what I heard from the homeless people themselves. They could get soup from so many kitchen soups or churches there in OTR, but they need these sandwiches when they go to WORK since the temp job services CHARGES them $2.75 for lunch. SO they save the sandwiches for later.

- NOT ALL the homeless are drug addicts. They WORK, for goodness sake! Please don't generalize people just because they are homeless.

- And yes, JESUS WAS HOMELESS, and He would prefer that these people who help them would be among them and live with them and above all, LOVE THEM. But, the Vineyard Church, unlike SOME other churches, claimed themselves as the church of the broken and the losers and the sinners, and I am one of them.

Thanks, Joe for generating a great discussion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe,<br />
I&#8217;ve talked to the Vineyard Pastor about it and he said you&#8217;ve already connected with one of the pastors. </p>
<p>For the readers&#8217; information:<br />
- The Vineyard WILL develop a &#8220;Healing Center&#8221; next to their church, that will address all kinds of &#8220;Needs&#8221; to expand their current ministry (MercyWorks) that  help people not only with food, job coaching, etc, but also counseling.<br />
- I&#8217;ve heard some opinions about serving food at Washington Park, but here&#8217;s what I heard from the homeless people themselves. They could get soup from so many kitchen soups or churches there in OTR, but they need these sandwiches when they go to WORK since the temp job services CHARGES them $2.75 for lunch. SO they save the sandwiches for later.</p>
<p>- NOT ALL the homeless are drug addicts. They WORK, for goodness sake! Please don&#8217;t generalize people just because they are homeless.</p>
<p>- And yes, JESUS WAS HOMELESS, and He would prefer that these people who help them would be among them and live with them and above all, LOVE THEM. But, the Vineyard Church, unlike SOME other churches, claimed themselves as the church of the broken and the losers and the sinners, and I am one of them.</p>
<p>Thanks, Joe for generating a great discussion!</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Wessels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Wessels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 03:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darrin,

Your points are very well taken. As soon as I published this post I sent an e-mail to a random senior pastor (just one lucky dood whose e-mail was on the church's Web site) at Vineyard in Springdale with a link to my blog post.

Much to his credit he responded Sunday evening. I have not returned his e-mail yet, but will. And soon. He wants to hook me up with Vineyard leadership.

In my e-mail I offered to begin a dialog so that Vineyard and other church/synagogue/mosque groups who find their way down here can give back in a way that helps, not hurts.

I plan to write about that on my blog as soon as I get permission from the pastor to do so (I'd like to include his name). 

By the way, I also mentioned the situation to an Over-the-Rhine pastor and he told me he was already working on something akin to what I suggested to Vineyard. It's supposed to launch soon. Hope to write about that, too.

Thank you for your kind thoughts and seemingly genuine interest. And thanks, too, for reading my blog.

-Joe</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darrin,</p>
<p>Your points are very well taken. As soon as I published this post I sent an e-mail to a random senior pastor (just one lucky dood whose e-mail was on the church&#8217;s Web site) at Vineyard in Springdale with a link to my blog post.</p>
<p>Much to his credit he responded Sunday evening. I have not returned his e-mail yet, but will. And soon. He wants to hook me up with Vineyard leadership.</p>
<p>In my e-mail I offered to begin a dialog so that Vineyard and other church/synagogue/mosque groups who find their way down here can give back in a way that helps, not hurts.</p>
<p>I plan to write about that on my blog as soon as I get permission from the pastor to do so (I&#8217;d like to include his name). </p>
<p>By the way, I also mentioned the situation to an Over-the-Rhine pastor and he told me he was already working on something akin to what I suggested to Vineyard. It&#8217;s supposed to launch soon. Hope to write about that, too.</p>
<p>Thank you for your kind thoughts and seemingly genuine interest. And thanks, too, for reading my blog.</p>
<p>-Joe</p>
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		<title>By: Darrin Murriner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darrin Murriner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 02:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joe, I wanted to offer a couple of counterpoints to your post.  First I would like to say that you make some great points in the article.  Namely that it is silly to offer redundant services in such a small area.  I think the effort is perhaps a little mis-directed but sometimes people fall into a rut of doing things the way it has always been done because it is comfortable.

Rather than ranting about it on this blog (not just you but those that have posted comments too) why not approach Vineyard leadership and offer suggestions?  Approaching volunteers is probably not the most effective way to come up with a better solution.

The city of Covington recently asked the Northern Kentucky Vineyard to stop serving in Covington as well but rather than just passing an ordinance or confronting volunteers during service they facilitated an arrangement between "Drop-in" type organizations and The Vineyard to coordinate their activities.

I have served multiple Saturdays at a similar hot-food giveaway in Newport and I don't do it out of guilt as some on this blog have suggested but because I have a genuine love for people.  I engage everyone in conversation and get to know them better, offer a smile, and try to form a relationship.  After a few Saturdays we get to know many of the people that come by.  It is wonderful when many of those that come through say that we are a gift from God - not because we bring free food but because we also bring free diapers, toiletries, and other items that everyone needs.

Many posters have also suggested that us religious types love to confine poverty to a certain area and keep ourselves isolated from the poverty.  This couldn't be further from the truth for some of the mega churches in the area.  The Vineyard in Springdale recently invested $12 million for facilities to serve people where they are.  I also know that Crossroads keeps their facilities completely open and free to the public.  Moms can use their nursery facilities, they have free wi-fi, coffee, drinks, games, etc that anyone can use.  They are also located in Norwood - not exactly Mason.  One could say that it might as well be located in Hyde Park but it is clearly there to serve an impoverished area.  Many of the people that I know that attend the church live in neighborhoods from Clifton, OTR, and Norwood and are trying to make a positive change in their communities.

All this to say that I hate seeing negative characterizations of churches in the tri-state area.  Visit any of them and you will see that the people that run, attend, or visit them have a true heart for our community and seeing positive change - not just economic but social.

In every organization - religious or otherwise you will find some people with negative attitudes or mis-directed efforts.  I do think if we try a little harder to offer suggestions to the right people we can come to a better solution.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do to facilitate a meeting with decision makers.  I am sure the last thing they want is to offend neighbors in the process of performing what they believe to be a good service.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, I wanted to offer a couple of counterpoints to your post.  First I would like to say that you make some great points in the article.  Namely that it is silly to offer redundant services in such a small area.  I think the effort is perhaps a little mis-directed but sometimes people fall into a rut of doing things the way it has always been done because it is comfortable.</p>
<p>Rather than ranting about it on this blog (not just you but those that have posted comments too) why not approach Vineyard leadership and offer suggestions?  Approaching volunteers is probably not the most effective way to come up with a better solution.</p>
<p>The city of Covington recently asked the Northern Kentucky Vineyard to stop serving in Covington as well but rather than just passing an ordinance or confronting volunteers during service they facilitated an arrangement between &#8220;Drop-in&#8221; type organizations and The Vineyard to coordinate their activities.</p>
<p>I have served multiple Saturdays at a similar hot-food giveaway in Newport and I don&#8217;t do it out of guilt as some on this blog have suggested but because I have a genuine love for people.  I engage everyone in conversation and get to know them better, offer a smile, and try to form a relationship.  After a few Saturdays we get to know many of the people that come by.  It is wonderful when many of those that come through say that we are a gift from God - not because we bring free food but because we also bring free diapers, toiletries, and other items that everyone needs.</p>
<p>Many posters have also suggested that us religious types love to confine poverty to a certain area and keep ourselves isolated from the poverty.  This couldn&#8217;t be further from the truth for some of the mega churches in the area.  The Vineyard in Springdale recently invested $12 million for facilities to serve people where they are.  I also know that Crossroads keeps their facilities completely open and free to the public.  Moms can use their nursery facilities, they have free wi-fi, coffee, drinks, games, etc that anyone can use.  They are also located in Norwood - not exactly Mason.  One could say that it might as well be located in Hyde Park but it is clearly there to serve an impoverished area.  Many of the people that I know that attend the church live in neighborhoods from Clifton, OTR, and Norwood and are trying to make a positive change in their communities.</p>
<p>All this to say that I hate seeing negative characterizations of churches in the tri-state area.  Visit any of them and you will see that the people that run, attend, or visit them have a true heart for our community and seeing positive change - not just economic but social.</p>
<p>In every organization - religious or otherwise you will find some people with negative attitudes or mis-directed efforts.  I do think if we try a little harder to offer suggestions to the right people we can come to a better solution.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do to facilitate a meeting with decision makers.  I am sure the last thing they want is to offend neighbors in the process of performing what they believe to be a good service.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 01:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, I just moved to Walnut.  Will there be a food service for me here or will I have to walk all the way up to the park?  I could show up drunk but don't think I could praise Jesus.  It's a lot of trouble to cook on the weekends sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, I just moved to Walnut.  Will there be a food service for me here or will I have to walk all the way up to the park?  I could show up drunk but don&#8217;t think I could praise Jesus.  It&#8217;s a lot of trouble to cook on the weekends sometimes.</p>
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		<title>By: 5chw4r7z</title>
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		<dc:creator>5chw4r7z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 00:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So all the drug addicts and alcoholics were rewarded again for making their home in OTR. As long as people enable them, they'll never leave.
I too wonder why they don't give out free food in Mason, they could do it at the last stop of 71x and give everyone free tokens to get there and back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So all the drug addicts and alcoholics were rewarded again for making their home in OTR. As long as people enable them, they&#8217;ll never leave.<br />
I too wonder why they don&#8217;t give out free food in Mason, they could do it at the last stop of 71x and give everyone free tokens to get there and back.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Wessels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Wessels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Oct 2007 21:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;This comment came to me as an e-mail. The sender gave me permission to post it exactly the way it was sent.
-Joe&lt;/i&gt;

Joe-

I was very happy to read your Washington Park blog post.   I'm a big fan of not giving folks a free pass just because their intentions are good, and I agree that doing what they do within spitting distance of the Drop Inn etc. is pointless at best, and actually a negative if they leave the place in worse shape then it was in when they showed up.  It seems like all it does is make a self-satisfied Christian, like the lady you quoted in your piece, even more so...  "Self satisfied," I mean.  Not "Christian".     
 
Also, it's funny you wrote about living on Washington Park when you did.  On Friday, as I stuck an address label with your name on it onto a postcard the Library mailed out, I realized you live right around the corner from me.  My wife and I just bought a place on Republic between 12th and 13th. 
 
Anyway, thanks, keep up the good work, and I hope to see you around the neighborhood.

Chris Messick
The Mercantile Library</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>This comment came to me as an e-mail. The sender gave me permission to post it exactly the way it was sent.<br />
-Joe</i></p>
<p>Joe-</p>
<p>I was very happy to read your Washington Park blog post.   I&#8217;m a big fan of not giving folks a free pass just because their intentions are good, and I agree that doing what they do within spitting distance of the Drop Inn etc. is pointless at best, and actually a negative if they leave the place in worse shape then it was in when they showed up.  It seems like all it does is make a self-satisfied Christian, like the lady you quoted in your piece, even more so&#8230;  &#8220;Self satisfied,&#8221; I mean.  Not &#8220;Christian&#8221;.     </p>
<p>Also, it&#8217;s funny you wrote about living on Washington Park when you did.  On Friday, as I stuck an address label with your name on it onto a postcard the Library mailed out, I realized you live right around the corner from me.  My wife and I just bought a place on Republic between 12th and 13th. </p>
<p>Anyway, thanks, keep up the good work, and I hope to see you around the neighborhood.</p>
<p>Chris Messick<br />
The Mercantile Library</p>
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		<title>By: steve carr</title>
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		<dc:creator>steve carr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Oct 2007 11:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for writing that post. My wife and I moved back to the city to start a church because we love it here and believe we need to live here in order to make a difference. 

Most suburban Christians are very well intentioned when they do things like this but I believe it's derived from a prejudicial view of the city ( i.e., "they need me to come in and save them"). That's probably why the people you talked to had no answers: because they really have no idea why they're doing it. But a big reason is to remove their guilt that was developed from sprawling away from the problem. 

I know this sounds harsh and perhaps even "un-Christian-like" (especially from a pastor) but until we really get down to the roots of the situation we'll continue to perpertuate an already difficult situation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for writing that post. My wife and I moved back to the city to start a church because we love it here and believe we need to live here in order to make a difference. </p>
<p>Most suburban Christians are very well intentioned when they do things like this but I believe it&#8217;s derived from a prejudicial view of the city ( i.e., &#8220;they need me to come in and save them&#8221;). That&#8217;s probably why the people you talked to had no answers: because they really have no idea why they&#8217;re doing it. But a big reason is to remove their guilt that was developed from sprawling away from the problem. </p>
<p>I know this sounds harsh and perhaps even &#8220;un-Christian-like&#8221; (especially from a pastor) but until we really get down to the roots of the situation we&#8217;ll continue to perpertuate an already difficult situation.</p>
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